I know i shouldn't have but i drew
Frankly, it's very difficult to analyze this kind of game. The logic behind most of moves is far beyond my understanding.
"3. d4 She confused me with this. I wasn't sure how to counter it. Probably should have played Bd6."
-> 3.d4 introduces the scotch game. The answer is 3...exd4 otherwise as in the game white plays d4-d5 gaining space and time by attacking the Nc6. Look at your Knight on e7 blocking your bishop.
-> Why do you play 6...b6 ??
"7. Bh4 Don't know why she played this."
-> I thought she played it in order to take your e5 pawn. But she didn't...don't know why.
Sorry, I prefer to stop here. I find it too much illogical.
Maybe if you comment all your moves...