I don't know what the point of the OP is.
The point of the OP is to thoroughly refute the accusation of cheating.
With a forum post? Seriously? How do you think that chess.com's cheating detection works? Just some dude who reads forum posts, and if he finds this topic, than everything is OK? This is getting more and more bizarre.
Not to mention that there is nothing to "refute". An opponent wrote something insane in a private chat. So what? If the next opponent trashtalks you, will you write another 1000-page epic novel about that too?
thanks for the request @13pax i accepted it