The point is, if you can only simulate perfect play, you can't say you've solved anything.
Tic Tac Toe isn't solved based on an approximation of "best play." It's solved because we can prove what perfect play looks like, exhaustively. That's what "solved" means.
With chess we can only do that with a handful of pieces on the board in the endgame. Tons of endgames are solved, but the game is much more complicated than that.
Everyone agrees that you can't have a better approximation of perfect play with current technology than a very strong engine. But it doesn't follow from that that Stockfish is truly optimal. Stockfish right now is superior to Stockfish last year.
Stockfish playing against itself from equal positions is of course going to result in a large percentage of draws. Because it's opponent is literally itself. Equal strength players = high percentage of draws.
I, too, will draw against myself the majority of the time - because no matter how well I play, I can't outthink myself ...
If white and black are playing at different ELO strengths, then which side wins does not only depend on the start position but also on playing strength. In other words, the weaker side is weaker because he, she or it is making mistakes. The hypothesis is that optimal play by both white and black leads to a draw. How else to simulate optimal or perfect play by both sides if not by using two instances of Stockfish?