First, you would be better off with Firefox or Chrome.
Second, read through the following. It is about disconnects but many of the solutions can help with slowness issues.
https://support.chess.com/customer/en/portal/articles/1444918-my-internet-connection-is-fine---why-am-i-getting-disconnects-
Finally, for Live, this may be of help.
https://www.chess.com/blog/News/how-to-adjust-your-live-chess-connection
I used to play rapid and blitz chess on here but strange things kept happening like I would have to click a piece 12 times to get it to highlight and then click the square move the piece into numerous times. The process can take a full minute to do. Even trying to write this many of the letters won't print even though I pressed those keys. This other chess website I use works just fine. I can only play correspondence chess on here now the website freezes my computer during rapid games and I lose on time. When I log in to chess.com I have to wait at least a minute before I can click on my correspondence games on the left. Often when I put the cursor over the red indicator that means my opponent has made a move the rest of the information won't appear. I have to wait and move the cursor around for a minute in order to get the information to be revealed with that tab on the left. Then I click on it and wait a long time just seeing the brown background I chose as a theme. Slowly some of the chess pieces in the game I'm playing will start to appear. I played one rapid or blitz game where on top my opponent's clock was ticking down and on bottom mine was not. I waited a long time and then a message popped up saying I lost on time. That was incredibly weird and the last straw for me. But like I said this other chess site everything comes up immediately, no weird stuff. So it makes me think it is just this website and not my computer.
I use Microsoft Edge with Windows 10 on a wireless notebook. It is a free account so I can't go back to old chess.com. I couldn't imagine paying for this nightmare. I live in the US. It also appears that somehow no one can see my forums posts on here for some reason